Dear God..

 "You shall not lie with a man as with a woman; that is an abomination." Leviticus, 18:22

"I grieve for you, Jonathan my brother; dear and delightful you were to me; your love for me was wonderful, surpassing the love of women." Samuel, 1:26

"Dear God, Are you OK?" 

These passages were not the point I wanted to make but it just shows that how rules -even divine ones- contradicts with each other..

So maybe everybody should create their own rules and norms(but that's another issue)..

There are some possible problems that claimed by anti-gay marriages/relationships such as destruction of social structure, lack of births, possible corruption of next generations etc..

Anyway, who cares about these? I think it is just about not being able to accept other people's differences..

Any person who thinks a little logically can find that homosexual marriages cannot cause the consequences above..

Either there are or not homosexual couples, there will always be heterosexual couples too..

So, If someone is afraid of homosexuality; I can assure that if they don't get homosexual, there is nothing to be afraid of.. 

relationship status: in relationship with the state..

the marriage is basically official and/or religious bondage between two people.. 

there would be tons of reasons for people to get together, to live together such as economic, physical, emotional needs..

however there are a few necessity to get actually officially married..

most people who thinks that marriage is a necessity to live together are afraid of social degredation or social pressure.. 

I don't think that there is a real difference between signing some papers and then living together and just living together.. 

while a piece of signed official paper or witness of the state could not protect people from getting cheated or left, not signing those papers and not wearing fancy clothes in front of the guests is not a mistake and does not mean that people will probably get one-night-stands till the end of their life..

the summary of this post and actually my point of view in general, we should stop the state interfering our businesses, our bedrooms, our houses and our lives..